Friendship, a relation that makes the good times better and the hard times easier

If one tries to explain what a friendship is then the words will less to explain it. Friendship is a relationship that is beyond words, beyond imagination and beyond everything. A true friend is someone who has your back no matter how hard the time or situation is, a true friend is someone where you can put your trust without any fear and again a true friend is someone where you won't feel any kinda hesitation to open up. But in this era you know what is hard to find? A true friend. Yes, a true friend is so hard to find cause this era is polluted with fake people. So here who is being honest with you and who is being fake with you it's hard to find. But if you have found a true friend then you must have to admit that it's a blessing that you got it.

From the very beginning, when we arrive in this world, this world is unknown to us except for our parents. Here we meet our first friend, our parents. Yes, the relation with your parents is a great example of true friendship. They make us know what friendship is. From the start of your life and till the end your parents will always stay beside you. They stay around us physically, by their words, their advice, their memories. When a child grows up gradually he/she has to meet with the world and that time he/she has to meet with different types of people. That time they get the chance to make new friends. 

Making friends is so easy but it's tough to know if that friend will stay beside you or not no matter what the situation is. If that friend stays beside you all the time then please congratulate yourself because you are the lucky one. There are so many people who have a lot of friends but still that person is alone. Do you know the reason? The reason is the person has friends but not a  true one. Again, some people got betrayed by their friend. These situations make a person's life so hard.

In life ,best thing happens when your life partner is your best friend. A life partner is a person with whom you will share your life. If your life partner doesn't understand you, then life turns into worst. It's not necessary that you have to marry your best friend for a happy life. No. Friendship can be grown after marriage too if your partner tries to understand you, makes you feel better, supports you in all situations and most importantly hold your hands tightly and fight your struggles with you. Relationships are stronger when you are a best friend first and a couple second.

Peoples who are famous in their life they also had friends to have their back. Plutarch said about friendship, "I don’t need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better."  Another author William Shakespeare said, "A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow."



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