Self improvement is a vehicle to know more about yourself

 No one is perfect in this world. But you can improve yourself day by day. For improving yourself you have to know yourself in a better way. If you don't know who you are then how you are going to improve? First of all you have to know that who you are, what you like, how you think and others. No one can tell you about yourself better than you.

So now the thing is how you are gonna know yourself better? Well, first of all ask yourself 3 questions

1. Who are you?

2. What makes you happy?

3.Where you want to find yourself in next 5 years?

There can be more  questions which will help you to improve yourself but these 3 are the basics. So now let's talk about these questions. Our first question is "Who are you?" . This is the most important question. Ask yourself who are you. Like if I want to answer this question I'd love to say that I am a person who love herself a lot and always concern about how to create a place where I can stand and say with full satisfaction that " Yes this is me". So ask this question again and again until you get your answer. 

The next question is "What makes you happy?" .Yes , think that what makes yourself happy. Happiness is a tremendous truth of your life. If you are not happy then you can't be confident about yourself. Lets think about someone who loves to paint. But that person is not getting the chance to paint. Does that make that person happy then? No. That won't make him happy. So happiness is must in one's life. It's an ingredient that will hold you up together.

Now come to our last and interesting question and that is "Where you want to find yourself in next 5 years?" So this question talks about your life goal. If you don't have any life goal you won't find the way to get yourself. It creates a huge distance with your own self. If you set a goal then you know the map of your life. You will find the way which will make you satisfied. You will try to achieve your goal and so that you will fight with everything .So think about it deeply. Find the answer.

Now moving to a question that is "How self improvement is connected to know yourself?" Okay the answer is so easy. Lets think about a device. Suppose your phone is suddenly not working. Then will you just stay with this problem or you will try to know about why it is not working and what will be the solution? You will try to know about it right? Yes. Our life is also the same. If we don't know who am I and why I am feeling this or that then how will I know that what I have to change or what I have to improve in me or how will I find myself in a better place? Yeah so knowing yourself properly can lead you to improve yourself. But one thing you have to remember that don't ever judge yourself, don't ever compare yourself with others. This is not a improvement process rather it will decrease your confidence level.You have to remember that not everyone is same and not everyone's life is same. So you have to remember it that this is you and no one can be you.

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